Dear Chums – How Do I Do This?
“Dear Two Chums,
The dental hygienist who has cleaned my teeth for years recently lost her son.”
“We never talk much since her hands are in my mouth but there are many pictures of her family around the room. One can see they were happy. A note came from Dr. Wyles office the other day saying,’ —-‘s son had died. Please do not mention this on your upcoming appointment so she can make it through the day.’
My heart is breaking. Losing parents is one loss but a child, I cannot imagine. I will respect the wishes of the office but I would like her to know she has my prayers and concern and I am deeply grieved over her loss. How do I do this?
Your Chum”
Dear Chum,
What a courageous lady! Our hearts go out to her!
Definitely, we feel that, if we were in the same situation, we would feel compelled to sit down and write a love-filled letter to that dear mother. We would probably mention that we know that she does not want it mentioned at work and we totally respect that but want her to know that our prayers are with her and her family and, if there is anything at all that we can do for her, for her to please let us know.
This dear lady needs all the support she can get! Silent prayers are a wonderful, most powerful support. Certainly, your Two Chums are praying for her.
Respectfully, and with love,
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Dear Jackie and Robin, you are so right. A note or card left at reception letting the lady know that you are thinking of her is what is needed. In a public place, most particularly her workplace is so inappropriate. She will appreciate your words and your concern when she can be alone to read them. Sheilia